tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post5207457060039432878..comments2024-01-05T22:29:37.773+08:00Comments on Syazwani Izzati: Can We Forgive and Forget?Syazwani Izzatihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05386545665035258096noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-14052206546148793342020-11-06T10:39:46.977+08:002020-11-06T10:39:46.977+08:00i agree with u , forgiving and forget would be har...i agree with u , forgiving and forget would be harder . but its worth to try . we only causing us tooss ourselves .sacrifice our own happiness would be the bad decision . Moving on and plastered all those broken pieces . New chapter awaiting :)sophea ◇https://www.blogger.com/profile/02601902698714482494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-16667340233898510812020-04-25T19:24:31.464+08:002020-04-25T19:24:31.464+08:00I guess it's always hard to generalise what a ...I guess it's always hard to generalise what a person should do in a difficult situation. The right thing to do is to forgive but not everybody can do that, sometimes, not even me. It all comes down to yourself and what you think is the right action for you to take. Happy Fasting, Ray! And thanks for dropping by again. 😉Syazwani Izzatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386545665035258096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-29723904129121584682020-04-25T01:25:26.466+08:002020-04-25T01:25:26.466+08:00I don't dare to say anything except for how ha...I don't dare to say anything except for how hard it could be. rayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04319372695857120919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-39584295347043773822020-04-24T23:29:23.391+08:002020-04-24T23:29:23.391+08:00Hello Mazni! I hear you. Sometimes, we might not e...Hello Mazni! I hear you. Sometimes, we might not ever be ready to forgive and for some of us, it'll be even harder to forget. I guess in situations like this, we just have to make the best of the life we have now, the friends we're surrounded with who brings out the good in us to enjoy what we have.Syazwani Izzatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386545665035258096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-45797424640561406842020-04-24T23:26:54.298+08:002020-04-24T23:26:54.298+08:00I totally agree with you. At the end of the day, i...I totally agree with you. At the end of the day, it all comes to yourself on whether you're ready to forgive somebody. There's never any pressure for you to adhere to either of those two things. Do what you believe would be best for yourself <3Syazwani Izzatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386545665035258096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-70706225472808248902020-04-24T19:16:28.307+08:002020-04-24T19:16:28.307+08:00i'm easily forgive, but i will never forget.
s...i'm easily forgive, but i will never forget.<br />samapi sekarang i still trapped in my past :) and it hurtsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-14489407319506027522020-04-13T15:57:39.378+08:002020-04-13T15:57:39.378+08:00I am with you when you said that hatred takes so m...I am with you when you said that hatred takes so much of energy of yourself.<br /><br />But, it also takes so much energy to actually forgive someone and forget the things that hurt you.Farahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17578344273912616210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-80601961014960112242020-04-07T23:22:42.973+08:002020-04-07T23:22:42.973+08:00No worries, there's never any real pressure to...No worries, there's never any real pressure to speed up forgiveness towards somebody (and ourselves). It takes time and courage to do what you know is right for yourself and the other person. <br /><br />Take care of yourself too during this RMO period! Hope to read more of your perspectives in future posts. heheSyazwani Izzatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386545665035258096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-78084917101928735002020-04-07T23:19:20.493+08:002020-04-07T23:19:20.493+08:00Oh my gosh, thank you!!! I agree with you. Just be...Oh my gosh, thank you!!! I agree with you. Just because we forgive someone, it doesn't mean things are guaranteed to go back how it used to be. Sometimes our hearts are ready to forgive just to move on from the pain and not come back, and sometimes we stay if the other person(s) is ready to take charge and do something about the problem. All in all, it's really up to us to take our own pace in forgiving ourselves and others, as well as what we plan to do about it. Hehe And yessss, I love that final quote too! It really got to me so I thought I'd let you guys read it too. :)Syazwani Izzatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386545665035258096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-46037476513313471312020-04-05T19:03:44.795+08:002020-04-05T19:03:44.795+08:00thank you for sharing. i still struggling to forgi...thank you for sharing. i still struggling to forgive and also forget my past. i hope that you stay healthy and safe during this rmo week!ztra.znddnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03561792058799070189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-6373352244572498702020-04-04T23:40:44.942+08:002020-04-04T23:40:44.942+08:00Im impressed with your grammar. It's so good!!...Im impressed with your grammar. It's so good!! Well, for me, I dont like to keep the revenge on someone so I just forgive them even tho they dont apologies. We gotta be mature too on handling those stuffs. I believe that maybe somedays they will realised all of things that they've done to us and will find a way to fix it back. Im ready to forgive someone but maybe I wont trust them like I used to do. It's also up to the things that they've done too. If it's a simple things then it's okay but if it's a serious things, maybe it will take a lotta times for me to forgive them. Btw, I love your last quotes. ^.^ Záty Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09427504330879666068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-67311738100009969092020-04-04T01:30:36.795+08:002020-04-04T01:30:36.795+08:00Hello Nadia! Gosh, I hope you're in a better s...Hello Nadia! Gosh, I hope you're in a better state of mind after what happened. It must have been a hard time for you. Yes, perhaps with more time, however much you need it to focus on healing yourself and finding the you that you love, you can overcome your sadness. I too don't recommend forgetting the pain we felt as I've said in my post. Forgiveness does not mean we need to forget. Although it is painful, it would help us from receiving the same pain again in the future. Before I end my comment here, I'm wishing you all the best in building your self-love and the feeling to enjoy your life and friendships with others. Every girl deserves her own happiness!Syazwani Izzatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386545665035258096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-12308847572106748302020-04-04T01:23:31.308+08:002020-04-04T01:23:31.308+08:00Hello Haziqah!! Thank you for dropping by and read...Hello Haziqah!! Thank you for dropping by and reading my post. :)<br />I'm with you 100% on your point. I hope through prayers we can get through our hardships and the persons who hurt us may move on to become better individuals.Syazwani Izzatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386545665035258096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-26474381083059713052020-04-04T01:20:01.236+08:002020-04-04T01:20:01.236+08:00Hello Lya! Thank you for dropping by and sharing w...Hello Lya! Thank you for dropping by and sharing with me your own thoughts about this topic. I have to agree with you on your constructive points. Forgiveness is important for us to move on and enjoy the life that we have now. Sometimes, like in your experience, forgiveness can also mend relationships with our friends. Forgetting is definitely difficult and for some, understandably impossible. However, forgiveness does not equate to forgetting the pain we felt. It teaches us to stay away from being at the receiving end of what hurts us. I hope you're doing better now despite how things turned out for you in the past. <br />:3<br />Syazwani Izzatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386545665035258096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-72029472866932369242020-04-04T00:27:07.562+08:002020-04-04T00:27:07.562+08:00I believe in relationship forgive is the most impo...I believe in relationship forgive is the most important and yes, sometimes we need time, lets time be heal. In relationship, i awalys blame on me because i think everyone is better than me. When the relationship fail, it is hard to forgive myself. The forget part, i think we should not forget because i believe we learn from the past.Nadia Jamharihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02117966305475653964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-48144889409558161252020-04-03T22:19:57.270+08:002020-04-03T22:19:57.270+08:00Nice writing..
the best way to forgive someone is ...Nice writing..<br />the best way to forgive someone is to make sincere Dua' for them..<br />Haziqahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09217612578692402525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4478657305332211655.post-23766060681107592782020-04-03T21:14:19.928+08:002020-04-03T21:14:19.928+08:00(On relationship)
To me, forgiveness needs courage...(On relationship)<br />To me, forgiveness needs courage. And it's never easy to gain that very courage to forgive. I agree with all your points, how we should embrace the emotion, of what happened in order to forgive and move forward. It's not easy but it can be done, depending on 'time will heal'. But to forget is another thing and I could never do it. That's why I don't believe in second chance because even if you give the person a second chance, you'll always be reminded of the past that he hurt you so you couldn't enjoy the happiness after that in the same way again.<br /><br />(On friendship)<br />This is my experience. I had a huge argument with a friend before and we didn't talk for years. I thought that we could never be friends again since the damage done was so great it affected both of us so so bad. Turned out, we could reconcile just by talking to each other. Talked about what happened and how sorry we were towards each other. Nope, we couldn't forget what happened, but surprisingly we could make a joke out of it nowadays. Lya Amiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04710728922874826054noreply@blogger.com